Dore itandukaniro riri hagati y’abagore bafite ikibuno kinini n’abafite igito mu gutera akabariro

Gutera akabariro ku bashakanye, ni ingingo igarukwaho kenshi haba mu nzira, mu tubari, mu kazi, mu mihanda n’ahandi hantu henhsi hakunda guhurira abantu benshi, baba bahuje umugambi cyangwa batawuhuje usanga hari byinshi bagenda bagarukaho cyane cyane amafaranga, ubuzima, politike, ubukungu,… gusa ntibanashobora kwirengagiza urukundo. Urukundo rero rujyana n’impaka nyinshi bamwe bahita bitsa kubijyanye n’ubuzima bw’imyororokere ndetse yewe ntibasiga n’ibijyanye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina, iyo bigeze kuri iyi ngingo rero ugasanga by’umwihariko ibintu biba ibindi.

Uyu munsi tugiye kureba ku ngingo benshi bahamya ko abagore bafite amabuno manini baba bazwiho kuryohereza abo bakorana imibonano mpuzabitsina, ese ibi byaba ari byo?

Aho ugenda unyura hagiye hatandukanye iyo uteze neza amatwi ibiganiro abagabo bagenda bagirana usanga abagabo benshi bavuga ko umugore ufite ikibuno kinini ashobora kuryohereza umugabo we cyane kurusha ufite ikibuno gito, ibi bikanatuma usanga abagabo benshi bagenda bakebuka bareba bena aba bagore b’ibibuno, iyo bahuye na bo mu muhanda.

Ubundi impuguke mu bijyanye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina Umubavu.com twifashishije, aho baba babitangaje ku mbuga za interineti, bemeza ko kuryoherwa cyangwa kuryohereza uwo mukorana iki gikorwa, biva ku bintu byinshi bitandukanye harimo uburyo mwishimaranye, mwateguranye mbere yigikora ndetse yewe bikarushaho kuba byiza iyo mubikoranye musanzwe mukundana.

Kuba umugore yaryohereza umugabo ntibiterwa n’uko afite ikibuno kinini ahubwo biterwa n’uko ateye ndetse no kuba yujujuje biriya twavuze haruguru harimo kuba yateguwe neza, yumva ashakwa, yishimiwe kandi akunzwe. Ibi ni byo bintu byonyine bishobora gutuma uyu mugore yumva aryohewe n’imibonano mpuzabitsina kandi iyo umugore yaryohewe biba byoroshye cyane kuryohereza n’umugabo we.

Ku ruhande rw’umugabo, ashobora kuryoherwa kurushaho cyane cyane kubera ko aba yamaze kubyizera mbere yo gutangira iki gikorwa kuko muri we azi neza ko umugore wese ufite ikibuno kinini aba aryoshye nta kabuza. Ibi rero bimufasha kwinjira neza muri iki gikorwa ndetse bikanatuma yumva yishimiye kugikora bitewe n’ibyishimo yumva ari bubikuremo.

Dukurikije ibyo inzobere ku buzima bw’imyororokere ndetse n’imibonano mpuzabitsina muri rusange, zivuga ko umugore ufite ikibuno ashobora kuryohereza umugabo kimwe n’uko ufite ikibuno gito nawe ashobora kumuryohereza ndetse akaba yanarusha ufite kinini.

Uko iki gikorwa kigenda n’ibiri buvemo byose biterwa n’uko abagikora bitwaye, ibihe barimo(bishimye kandi batuje…), uko bishimiranye, uko bakundana, imyiteguro bakora mbere yo kugitangira n’ibindi byinshi. Imitere y’umuntu inyuma rero ntaho ihuriye n’uburyo umuntu yitwara mu buriri. Abajyaga rero babyibeshyaho muramenye ejo mutazatungurwa no gukunda umukobwa kubera uko ateye ejo akazabatungura musanze nta kigenda mu buriri.

Alice UMWALI/Umubavu.com





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