Ibintu usabwa kwirinda mu ijoro ry’ubukwe bwawe

Nubwo uko iminsi igenda iza igenda izana ibyayo ariko burya umunsi w’ubukwe ku bashakanye wagakwiye kugira imyifato yihariye ugereranyije n’indi minsi cyane ko ari umwe mu minsi iba itazibagirana mu buzima bwabo. Hari gusa ibintu byinshi abageni baba basabwa kwitwararikamo kuri uwo munsi birinda ko byababera kidobya mu byishimo byabo.

Kimwe mu byo bagomba kwitwararikamo ni ikijyanye no gutera akabariro kuri uwo munsi w’ubukwe bwabo dore ko abenshi badatinya kuvuga ko ari imwe mu nkingi za mwamba z’urugo.

Dore bimwe by’ingenzi umugabo aba asabwa kwitondera ku munsi we w’ubukwe:

1. Kwirinda guhubuka (hubuhubu) mu buriri

Abenshi aba ari ubwa mbere cyangwa yaranabikoze gusa niba hari ikosa ribi n’ukugira impamyi mu gikorwa cyo kubaka urugo nyamara umugore wawe muba muzabana ubuzima bwose imana izabatiza nta mpamvu rero yo kwirukansa ibintu bishobora gutuma umugore wawe agukeka ibindi itonde.

2. Kwirinda ubusinzi ku munsi w’ubukwe

Kenshi umugabo anywa inzoga nyinshi niko n’imibonano irushaho kugenda nabi. Ni nayo mpamvu mu ijoro ry’ubukwe uba usabwa kwirinda ibisindisha.

2. Guturiza bisesuye aho mwateguye kurara

Icyumba cy’abageni kigomba kuba gifite umutekano uhagije Si ngombwa ko abari aho bumva ibyo murimo ni biba ngombwa uzashake icyuma kitaruye cyangwa wifashishe inyakiramajwi(Radio) ucurange indirimbo zituje maze wiyubakire urugo uko ubyifuza.

Mu gihe ukurikije izi nama Umubavu.com tukugiriye kimwe n’izindi nawe wumva zagufasha, ntakabuza uzaba wujuje inshinagano zawe neza nk’umugabo kandi n’umugeni wawe azakwishimira by’iteka bityo imibanire yanyu irusheho kugenda ibashyira mu munyenga dore ko aricyo buri wese aba yifuza mu minsi ye yo kubaho.

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UMUTESI Kuya 16-02-2018

None se! Umukobwa we ko aba agiye gukora ibimukundisha umugabo we ngo amwigarurire burundu ni iki agomba kwitondera kugirango bitamubyarira amizi nk’ ibisusa? Njye ndabona ari ku badamu ruba ruzingiye gusumba umugabo! kuko 80% by’ abakobwa bashaka abagabo bashaka kubaka kugirango bikure mu gisebo cyo kugumirwa no kuba ibishubaziko, niyo mpamvu niyo wabafata nabi ntibakuvira aho, kiretse iyo abona ntakundi byanze pe! ariko pe! nukuri bashaka bafashe icyemezo ngo bajye guhinduka ibyo kurya by’ abagabo niyo mpamvu usanga benshi bifuza guhinduka nk’ isukari ku bagabo babo. mfite ubuhamya none bo bakwitonda bate ku munsi wa mbere ngo baryohererere abagabo babo iteka?