Dore ibintu by’ingenzi byagufasha kuryoherwa n’akabariro mu buryo butangaje

Nkuko bigarukwaho n’abantu benshi, imibonano mpuzabitsina ni kimwe mu bintu biryoha hano ku isi ariko ikibazo kikaba ku bantu benshi usanga bataramenya uburyo bayikoramo neza kugira ngo bagerere ku ngingo abo bashakanye. Hari n’abandi bizera ko gutera akabariro ku rundi ruhande atari byiza bitewe n’impamvu zabo runaka gusa burya biba bibabaje kumva umuntu avuga ko gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina bitaryoha.

Ni ibintu bibaho cyane ko hari abantu usanga bikundira gutera akabariro ariko bakagorwa no kumenya uburyo nyabwo bwo kugatera kugira ngo bashimishe abo bari gukorana igikorwa. Iyi niyo mpamvu Umubavu.com, tubazaniye uburyo bwiza bune bwo gukoramo imibonano mpuzabitsina ikaryoha mu buryo budasanzwe hagati y’abashakanye.

1. Ntibikwiye kujya gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina wakuyemo imyenda yose

Ubundi niba mugeze mu gihe cyo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ugomba kugenda uko wambaye ubundi mu gihe mwatangiye gukoranaho, ari nako musomana buri umwe agatangira kugenda akuramo undi imyenda, ubundi mwarangiza kuyivanamo hano hari uburyo bwiza bwo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, mwese mugomba kwicara ubundi umukobwa akanyuza amaguru hejuru y’amatako y’umuhungu,ubwo umuhungu nawe agafata umukobwa ku mabuno ye maze akamukurura amwiyegereza maze bagatangira igikorwa bicaye.

2. Gukinisha uwo mugiye guterana akabariro

Niba ushaka kugira isaha yose uri gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, icyo musabwa ni ugukinishanya mu gihe cyo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, ufite gufata uguhumeka kwawe kutarajya hasi igisubizo nta kindi ni ugukinishanya ukora kora ku gitsina cyuwo muri kumwe.

3. Ugomba kuvuga mu gihe muri gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina

Niba muri gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina wigira isoni vuga nibwo uri bwumve uryoherwa ndetse n’uwo muri kumwe, nimvuga kuvuga ntugire ngo ni ukuvuga bya bindi bisanzwe, oya, kuvuga mvuga ni ukuniha mu gihe muri gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, ari nako mugerageza gusomana kugira ngo bibafashe kugera ku byishimo mwifuza.

4. Ugomba kwita ku byiyumviro byawe

Ufite kumvira uburyo ubwonko buri kuguha bwo gukoramo imibonano mpuzabitsina. Iga kwinjira muwo muri gukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina, kandi ugerageze niba uri gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina abe aribyo werekezaho ibitekerezo byawe byose ndetse wishyiremo ko nta kindi kibaho ku isi kiryoshye nk’imibonano mpuzabitsina uri gukora.

Alice UMWALI/Umubavu.com





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