Ibice  by’abakobwa/abagore  abagabo barebaho  bagashaka  gutera akabariro mu buryo bwihuse

Iyo umukobwa/umugore atambutse ahantu runaka hateraniye abasore/abagabo akenshi barahindukira bakabitegereza ndetse bikarangira havuyemo na bamwe bataripfana bakabagaragariza amarangamutima batewe n’uwo mukobwa babonye ubatambutse imbere yabo ku buryo bahita bifuza kujya mu rukundo nabo.

Muri uku guhindukira kw’abagabo/abasore nkuko bitangazwa n’ikinyamakuru Huffingtonpost, hari ibice bimwe na bimwe ku gitsina gore usanga abagabo barebaho bikabatera kumva bashatse gutera akabariro mu buryo bwihuse bitewe n’uburyo bibakurura aho ku isonga amabuno y’abagore/abakobwa ariyo aza ku isonga.

Ibi byatumye iki kinyamakuru gikora urutonde rw’ibice by’umubiri w’umukobwa/umugore bikurura abagabo cyane kurusha ibindi ku buryo umugabo ashobora kubireba akaba yahita yitekerereza ari mu gitanda bitewe n ;’uburyo we afata icyo gice.

1. Amabuno

Abagabo benshi nk’uko bitangazwa n’iki kinyamakuru Huffingtonpost ngo bishimira amabuno y’abagore cyane ku rusha ibindi bice byabo byose.

2. Igituza

Iki nacyo ni kimwe mu bice by’ingenzi by’umugore umugabo yitaho mu bihe binyuranye yaba agikoraho yaba,akireba yewe no mu buzima bwose bw’umugabo iyo ari kumwe n’umugore. Iki kinyamakuru kivuga ko igituza cy’umugore iyo umugabo akirabutswe agororoka akagwa neza umutima we ukuzura umutuzo nawe akaba yakwemerera kuwugutuzamo.

3. Ibirenge

Abagabo benshi bishimira imimerere n’imiterere y’ibirenge by’abagore,Kenshi n’iyo umugabo ari kumwe n’umugore we ukunze gusanga amukorakora ku birenge.iki si cyo gihimba cyonyine ku mugore gikundwa cyane n’abagabo,

4. Imiterere y’inda y’umugore

Nk’uko kinyamakuru Huffingtonpost kibitangaza ngo abagabo bakunda ibice by’umubiri w’umugore bitandukanye byumwihariko imiterere y’ inda. Abagabo benshi bakunda cyane imitere y’inda z’abagore Benshi niyo bari kumwe iki gice abagabo benshi banyurwa no kukireba cyangwa kugikorakora cyane cyane umukondo.

5. Amaguru

Abagabo bakunda kwitegereza kandi bagaterwa ibyishimo n’imiterere y’amaguru y’abagore, Ibi ariko biterwa n’uko ayo maguru ateye.

6. Umusatsi

Nawo nk’uko ikinyamakuru Huffingtonpost gikomeza kibyerekana ngo abagabo bakunda byimazeyo umusatsi w’igitsina gore. Ibi bikaba ari bimwe mu bituma abagore bita cyane ku musatsi wabo kugira ngo babashe kugarara neza imbere y’abagabo kandi banabishimire.

7. Inseko

Nayo ni kimwe mu bintu bikurura abagabo bigatuma bakunda ndetse bagahora babifuza kugira ngo bahore babitegereza kuko inseko nayo ni kimwe mu byiza n’ibiranga uburanga bw’umugore bikanezeza umugabo we,bigatuma amukunda kandi agahora amurangamiye mu bihe byose.

8. Amaso

Amaso y’abagore ni kimwe mu bikurura abagabo bigatuma bakunda ndetse bagashigukira abagore igihe icyo aricyo cyose.

9. Iminwa y’abagore n’abakobwa

Ni ikindi gice cy’ingenzi gikurura abagabo ku bagore,haba kuyireba kuyisoma n’ibindi.
Mugore cyangwa umukobwa niba wifuza kwigarurira umutima w’umugabo wawe ita ku minwa yawe uyihunde ibirungo nawe azaguhunda urukundo kandi yumve iteka anyuzwe no kukugira.

10. Ijosi

Ijosi naryo riri mu bikurura abagabo n’abasore cyane. Ngo burya abasore bakunda umukobwa ufite ijosi ry’urutarati (rirerire).

Mugore cyangwa mukobwa niba wumva wifuza kwigarurira umutima w’umugabo wawe, ita ku bice by’umubiri wawe, cyane cyane wite kuri ibi twavuze hejuru kugira ngo bigufashe kwigarurira urukundo rwe kandi mu bihe bitandukanye umutere guhora akurangamiye.

Gusa ibi bice uko twabitondetse siko bikurikirana mu gukurura abagabo, kandi si ngombwa ko buri mugabo akururwa n’ibi bice byose, ashobora gukururwa na bike muri byo bitewe n’ibyo we yikundira.

Alice Umwali/Umubavu.com



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