Menya uko wahaza umukunzi wawe mu gihe cy’ibyishimo

Abantu benshi bibwira ko gushimisha umukunzi ari ukumuha ibya mirenge ku ntenyo cyangwa ukamugurira ibihenze nka zahabu nyamara burya ibyo byose ushobora kubikora ariko ntibiryoshye urukundo rwawe n’umukunzi wawe.

Ntabwo kuba waba ushatse vuba cyangwa se uri mu rukundo rudahuzagurika nuwo mukundana ngo ube utabasha neza neza gusobanukirwa neza uko wageza umugore wawe ku byishimo nyabyo mu gihe cyo kwishimana nawe .

Wowe uri mu rukundo ruzima ruhamye umuntu akubajije ati “ese ni gute wabigenza kugirango uhaze umukunzi wawe agukunde iteka ntagire n’akanunu ko kunca inyuma ?” niba igisubizo cyawe ukigishijanyaho uyu munsi nkufitiye igisubizo nyacyo kuriyi ngingo. Gusa ubu ni uburyo bwiza nkuzaniye bwo kugirango umukunzi wawe acike cyangwa se ntazigere na rimwe atekereza kuguca inyuma, Umva mugabo menya neza ko zimwe mu mpamvu z’ingenzi zituma umugore wawe aguca inyuma zirimo n’uburyo umufata mu gihe cyo gutera akabariro, uko umwitaho ni bimwe mu byatuma afata umwanzuro wo kuguca inyuma cyangwa se kukunambaho.

Menya ko niba we atekereza na gato ko umufata nabi mu buriri nta kabuza azagucika yigendere gushaka icyo yakubuzeho, si impamvu z’igihe mumarana cyangwa see I z’amafaranga cyangwa se inshuro muvugana kuri telephone ahubwo uko umwitaho, ariko niba uri umugabo utabasha kumara nibura iminota 2 mu buriri ntubashe ntuzabure gukeka ko umugore inyuma se inshuti zawe zo hafi ziri hafi kubikora. ariko dore icyo ukwiriye gukora ni iki.

Wabasha kwiyita umugabo ari uko ushobora gusa nibura guhaza umugore wawe mu buriri kuko kutabikora ni ukwisenyera urukundo, gusa ibanga ni iri : tangira wite ku mukunzi uhindure imyitwarire, byibuze mumare mu buriri iminota byibuze 35 ahora akwifuze aguhozeho umutima areke kugira ibindi atekereza usibye wowe.

Alice Umwali/Umubavu.com



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