Dore impamvu buri musore agomba guhitamo umukobwa wuje umucyo n’uburanga mu gihe yitegura kurushinga

Mu gihe umusore yitegura gushinga urwe rugo, ni ikintu kitonderwa ndetse gisaba ubushishozi kuko mu gihe bititondewe bishobora gutera amakimbirane mu rugo adashira azanwa no kutishimira uwo yahisemo. Ni ingenzi cyane ku musore wese guhitamo umukobwa ufite ubwiza kugira ngo azagire ibyishimo mu buzima bwe.

Iki ni igihe usanga abantu bavuga ko bigoye guhitamo uwo muzarushingana bitewe nuko inyuma hatavuga ko umuntu n’imbere ari mwiza kimwe nuko umuntu yaba mwiza imbere inyuma akaba atagaragara neza. Biragora kandi kuko usanga abantu badahuriza kubyo bagomba kugenderaho bahitamo abo bazashakana, aha usanga bamwe bareba amashuri, imitungo, imyaka... Hatitawe kuri ibi byose rero, ni byiza ko umusore yahitamo umukobwa bazambikana impeta agendeye ku bwiza bwe.

Izi ni impamvu 3 z’ingenzi zigaragaza ko ari byiza kwita ku bwiza bw’umukobwa igihe wifuza ko mwazambikana impeta yo kwibanira akaramata :

1. Guhitamo neza bizatuma ugira ubuzima burimo ibyishimo

Kubana n’umukunzi ufite isura nziza nibyo bizarinda kamere yawe gutekereza nabi wowe numugira bizagufasha guhora utekereza ibintu byubaka kandi bikomeza umubano ndetse n’imishinga yanyu yose,umugore mwiza azagutera ibyishimo ndetse n’icyizere muri byose.

2. Guhitamo neza umugore biguhesha ishema n’icyubahiro mu bandi bantu

Burya umugore mwiza ku mubiri no mu bikorwa niwe ubasha kwerekana ko uzi guhitamo neza kandi urumuri rw’ibikorwa bye byiza bigeretseho isura irangaza benshi nibyo byerekana ko no mu rukundo rwanyu cyangwa se mu rugo rwanyu mubanye neza cyane, kandi uyu mukobwa cyangwa umugore niwe uzabasha kukugenera icyubahiro cyawe.

3. Ugomba kumenya ko ukwiye kwishima mu buzima bwawe (Waremewe kwishima)

Mu buzima bwawe ntabwo ukeneye umuntu uguhunza ibyishimo wisanganiwe kuko usanzwe uri umugabo w’ibyishimo ukeneye umukunzi ubereye kandi uhura n’ibyishimo nawe ufite.Nta wundi wabasha ibyo rero usibye umukobwa ufite uburanga bw’umubiri, ubw’umutima kandi azi ubwenge.

Alice UMWALI/Umubavu.com



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